I do most of my riding 2-up so actual movement on the bike is pretty minimal. Rode 85 miles of freeway into a 30 MPH headwind just last week, and other than the remarkably crappy gas mileage, it wasn't bad. I just kicked back with my feet on the highway pegs and rode it out. If the force against your head and neck is what's bothering you, you can always tuck down a bit to fight the headwind. I've couched far enough to almost have my chin on the gauge cluster a time or two.
And crosswinds just suck. Not much you can do about 'em.
2011 Victory Cross Roads, crimson red
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