I've got the 2" lowering link . Has its pros & cons.
I'm 195 and have also ridden with a passenger = 300 in total
Cons..... shitty over-all ride.
I've played with the spring set-up and dampening adjuster and it still rides like shit.
Shit in the sense of... rough roads it feels like your riding a rigid.
Bumps translates to your ass coming off the seat.
On smooth asphalt rides.... great.
But I've learned to love and accept it.
Not to bad considering most of my riding is on smooth roads.